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Stress management for a healthier heart... and a happier life!

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| An easy read, but packed with compelling success stories and the strategies you need for successful mind-body-spirit stress management.
A highly recommended book by both psychologists and lay people alike.
Ten simple techniques to help anyone avoid anxiety-related problems and feel more vibrant and healthy by managing stress.
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We all recognize that stress management is a good thing - even a necessary thing - but in today's world, how do you do it?
And, everyone experiences stressful situations in their lives, yet as Pamela Peake says in her book Fit to Live, the problem isn't so much the stressful situations - it's our distress as a reaction. Distress is when we're feeling helpless, hopeless, or defeated.The effects of chronic stress can be serious. It can lead to elevated blood pressure. Acute stress can lead to blockage of the arteries. Mental stress can decrease the electrical stability of the heart, which can lead to arrhythmias and sudden cardiac arrest. But to put things in perspective, let's remember that stress is very personal. What causes distress for one person may be invigorating for another. The first step is to understand the sources of stress in your life and then to learn to use the tips and techniques that are most appropriate for each situation and for you.
Stress Management Tips
"For fast acting relief, try slowing down." Lily TomlinKeep a balance in your life. Make sure you plan time for for the things that are important to you - be it family, fitness, leisure, socializing, and hobbies. If you have heart disease, you've had a wake up call. This is your chance to make some changes.
Recognize what you can change and what you can't. Change the things you can and learn to accept the things you can't.
Learn to say no. If you are like me, you find it difficult to say no when someone asks to you do something or be involved in something. In order to keep a balance in your life, sometimes you just have to say "no." Now you have a reason - you have your health to keep in mind.
When you are feeling stressed:
Breathe deeply. This will get more oxygen into your system. Get some
exercise.
Take a
walk.
Go for a
cycle.
Do some
yoga.
Participate in a sport, or engage in a fun activity. Exercise releases endorphins into your system - a natural sedative capable of relieving pain in a manner similar to that of morphine.
Stretch. A good stretch can promote mental and physical relaxation. Get a good night's rest. Try to go to bed and wake up at the same time. Keeping a regular schedule will help your body expect sleep at the same time each day. Eat healthily. Putting good fuel in your body will help you cope more effectively.
Listen to soothing music. My mother loves to listen to Oscar Peterson's album "Round Midnight" as a way to relax. I love listening to Enya. Others like to listen to soothing music with the sounds of the ocean or birds singing. It doesn't matter what the music is, as long as you find it soothing and relaxing.
Visualize a place that is peaceful and tranquil. I imagine sunsets in Mexico! Get a massage. Listen to a relaxation CD and practice relaxation techniques. Take a nap. Have a warm bath. Read a book or watch an uplifting movie. Talk to a trusted friend about your problems - getting things off your chest can be very helpful.
What about pets and stress management? While pets aren't for everyone and not every pet is a joy to have (in fact some pets create stress), recent research shows that pets can help reduce stress. For example, pets are great listeners! They don't talk back, and their love is unconditional (well, as long as you feed them). Research actually shows that, when conducting a stressful task, people experienced less stress when their pets were with them than when a supportive friend or even their spouse was present!
Work related stress
An American survey, published in the Journal of Occupational and Environmental Medicine, noted that for those working 12 hours a day, there was a 37% increase in risk of illness and injury in comparison to those who work fewer hours.Fit for Life reports that working more than 45 hours per week is associated with increased risk of high blood pressure, heart disease, fatigue, depression, musculoskeletal disorders, chronic infections, and diabetes.
A study done by Northwestern National Life reports that one-fourth of employees view their jobs as the number one stressor in their lives. (stressmanagementtips.com)
Twice recently I've heard people say that human beings have become "human doings." Nowhere is this more true than in the workplace. I used to work 10 - 12 hours a day, take work home, and work on weekends. My family just about gave up on me because every time they mentioned it, I said, "It's only until this project is finished, then I'll get things under control." It never happened. And then I got heart disease.
When I went back to work, I vowed it would be different. I've had to learn stress management techniques, and to delegate and manage my workload and my time more effectively. The interesting thing is that although I don't work the same long hours as I used to, my output has not decreased in proportion to the cutback in hours. I think the law of diminishing returns is the explanation. When you are working ridiculous hours, at some point you begin "spinning your wheels." You become less effective and you're not even aware of it!
Stress Management at Work
Delegate. Don't try to do everything yourself. (I know it's easier said than done). Take mini breaks. A 15 minute coffee break with a co-worker or friend can be a great stress reliever. Take your lunch break. I used to work through lunch all the time. This may be okay once in a while, but it's a bad habit. Meet a friend, eat in the park, read a book, go for a walk. But make sure you take that break. Your mind and body need it. Take vacations. Even if you love your work (I do) you need time away to refresh and recharge. Strive to achieve a good work-life balance. By offsetting the stressful events in your work with plenty of other interests, activities, and pleasureable events, you make life more enjoyable and reduce the risk of burnout. Finally, if your job causes you undue stress, think about making a change. Is it worth sacrificing your health (and possibly your life) to stay?
What stress management techniques have helped you? Send us your tips.

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